[vekter] serxule - old ban

[verybigpebble]

BYOND account: serxule (old)

Ban/note type: server

Ban/note duration: perma
Ban/note reason: Banned by host: You, or another user of this computer or connection (Serxule) is banned from playing here. The ban reason is: Continues to have issues with anger and exploding in both IC and deadchat, including calling people shitters, screaming about breaking the rules, and telling players to kill themselves. Myself and two of the headmins agree the server would be a healthier place without you at this time. You may appeal to discuss terms of this being lifted in the future.
Time ban was placed: 2023-06-22 17:52:46
Server you were playing on when banned: idk
Round ID in which ban was placed: 208874

Why are you making this appeal?:
() - The ban/note is factually incorrect
() - The ban/note is not against the rules
() - The ban/note needs modification
() - The ban was unjustifiably harsh
(x) - I was permabanned and I want another chance

Why should this appeal be accepted?: its been like 1.5year? ish, i left ss13 entirely maybe a few months or less after the ban, and this is my first return since, no guarantees i'll actually play but i might as well appeal, i've grown and learned a lot over the past 1.5y, no longer have legit anger issues, i was definitely an ass back then mainly just due to life reasons, i was and had been in a very bad spot and since i left had been working on my life, the past few months i've gotten a lot better, and i am at a point with mental (and general life) help and such that i dont have those issues anymore, but again no guarantee that i'll play again, i've also "deleted" my other accounts as much as possible to where they're unrecoverable, so im under a new account (i can dm if needed), and i guess to sum it up, i've learned to just shut my mouth and walk away when i get mad, instead of blowing up

[Vekter]

Hey, gamer. I'm glad to hear things are going better for you IRL. I'm not against the idea of giving you a second chance, but I have a few questions for you first:

1) You mentioned leaving SS13 entirely since you were last banned. Have you considered playing on any other servers, such as Monkestation, to show us that you've managed to keep a lid on your anger in general?

2) A large component of why I banned you was your repeated rule 11 violations. Most of it was the constant blow-ups, but the fact that you liked to call people slurs was definitely a factor in why I decided to remove you from the community. Can you demonstrate to me that you understand why using these words as insults is harmful and that you won't do so again going forward? Another rule 11 violation is likely to end you up right back where you are now.

[verybigpebble]

1. as i just came back no, but i'll be on tgmc every now and then (arguably a good standpoint since i used to get pissed at tgmc more than i did normal tg, not the players as much though)

2. i assume the slur was just the f-word (not that it matters i guess a slurs a slur i've just forgotten), but yes i was awaare then that i shouldnt be saying it, i just didnt really have self control back then for managing what i say, and now i have good self control, and wont be saying anything of the sort

[Vekter]

2. i assume the slur was just the f-word (not that it matters i guess a slurs a slur i've just forgotten), but yes i was awaare then that i shouldnt be saying it, i just didnt really have self control back then for managing what i say, and now i have good self control, and wont be saying anything of the sort

It was the f-slur along with calling a few players with female statics "whores".

Please keep in mind the following: If you continue the behavior you exhibited before, you will find yourself banned much faster this time, and having burned what little good will you have left. I'm fine with giving you another chance, but please understand that extra scrutiny will be on you for some time until you can prove that you're able to put forth significant change in your behavior.

[verybigpebble]

ah thats what i forgot

i assumed as much, i dont plan on and wont be doing anything similar to what i used to do, call it a new years resolution i guess

[Vekter]

ah thats what i forgot

i assumed as much, i dont plan on and wont be doing anything similar to what i used to do, call it a new years resolution i guess

Alright, you should be unbanned. Best of luck to you going forward.